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Sunday, September 28, 2014
School Pics
We only got Liam and Elijah's pics so far, because Caleb was sick on Picture day. So yeah, Liam will be getting retakes. LOL
Thursday, September 18, 2014
SICKENING
Article from The Moscow Times:
NGO Slams Treatment of Disabled Children in Russian Orphanages
- By Anna Dolgov
- Sep. 16 2014 15:38
- Last edited 20:04
Nearly 30 percent of Russian children with disabilities live in orphanages.
Human Rights Watch (HRW) issued a damning report this week condemning the treatment of disabled children in Russia's orphanages, alleging abuse and neglect.
Nearly 30 percent of Russian children with disabilities live in state-run orphanages, though most of them have at least one living parent, as whenever a child with a disability is born in Russia, health care workers pressure parents to give up their newborn baby to an orphanage, HRW said in a 94-page report released Monday.
Once in the system, children with a variety of disabilities such as cerebral palsy, schizophrenia, Down’s syndrome and the specific Russian “diagnoses” of “debility” or “idiocy” are barred from opportunities to learn — including learning how to walk, the report said.
The findings are based on visits by HRW researchers to 10 orphanages in six of Russia's regions, and more than 200 interviews with parents and with current and former wards of the institutions, the report said.
In eight out of the 10 orphanages, researchers found children of all ages confined to cribs 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and banned from getting up or using a wheelchair, even if the children were capable of learning to walk, the report said.
“Staff justified keeping children confined to cribs stating that children were contagious (including in cases when children had non-communicable diseases such as schizophrenia); that children did not understand anything and therefore could not benefit from going outside or to classes, when the latter opportunities were available; or that the children’s health was too fragile to remove them from their beds,” the report said.
Orphanage administrators also discourage employees from paying attention to children, playing with them, allowing them outside contact or taking them outdoors, arguing that attention would “spoil” the children, the report said.
Yet many of these children are able to thrive if given a chance, examples cited in the report indicate.
A case in point is a girl identified as Dasha D., now 14, who was born with Down's syndrome in 1999, and whose mother Anastasia initially gave her up to an orphanage under pressure from health workers, but decided to take her back a year later.
“They told me she would die in my arms, that her illness was so severe that she would need constant care,” Anastasia was quoted as saying. “They compared her to a broken toy that you can return to the store.”
But after returning home, Dasha learned to walk, talk and read and began attending school, the report said. She also enjoys taking care of her elderly grandmother and a younger sister, her mother said, and photos of Dasha included in the report show a smiling blonde girl, looking happy as she hugs her little sister or holds a toy.
Dasha's fate would likely have been very different if she had remained in an orphanage.
In eight of the 10 institutions visited for the report, HRW researchers “documented how staff issued threats against children, including death threats and threats of beating or psychiatric hospitalization, as punishment for behavior deemed 'bad' or 'wild'; called children derogatory names such as 'vegetables' and claimed children have no potential to learn or live independently,” the report said.
The calumny of being unable to learn — and the sentence to a lifetime of misery it entails — is endorsed by a special term in Russia's orphanages: The children are declared “uneducable,” the report said.
Those who get the label are often tied to cribs in “lying-down rooms” around the clock, according to the report.
An independent Moscow-based pediatrician specializing in treating children with disabilities, who was identified only as Nina B., told Human Rights Watch that the severe restrictions on any opportunity to learn or even move often cause children from orphanages to become “atrophied.”
Andrea Mazzarino, a Europe and Central Asia researcher at Human Rights Watch and an author of the report, said in a statement that “violence and neglect of children with disabilities in orphanages is heartbreaking and completely deplorable.”
“Many children with disabilities confined to ‘lying down’ rooms suffer stunning delays in their physical, emotional and intellectual development,” Mazzarino said. “Until the Russian government and donors act, tens of thousands of Russian children may spend their lives between four walls, isolated from their families, communities and peers, and denied the range of opportunities available to other children.”http://www.themoscowtimes.com/news/article/ngo-slams-treatment-of-disabled-children-in-russian-orphanages/507183.html
Nearly 30 percent of Russian children with disabilities live in state-run orphanages, though most of them have at least one living parent, as whenever a child with a disability is born in Russia, health care workers pressure parents to give up their newborn baby to an orphanage, HRW said in a 94-page report released Monday.
Once in the system, children with a variety of disabilities such as cerebral palsy, schizophrenia, Down’s syndrome and the specific Russian “diagnoses” of “debility” or “idiocy” are barred from opportunities to learn — including learning how to walk, the report said.
The findings are based on visits by HRW researchers to 10 orphanages in six of Russia's regions, and more than 200 interviews with parents and with current and former wards of the institutions, the report said.
In eight out of the 10 orphanages, researchers found children of all ages confined to cribs 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and banned from getting up or using a wheelchair, even if the children were capable of learning to walk, the report said.
“Staff justified keeping children confined to cribs stating that children were contagious (including in cases when children had non-communicable diseases such as schizophrenia); that children did not understand anything and therefore could not benefit from going outside or to classes, when the latter opportunities were available; or that the children’s health was too fragile to remove them from their beds,” the report said.
Orphanage administrators also discourage employees from paying attention to children, playing with them, allowing them outside contact or taking them outdoors, arguing that attention would “spoil” the children, the report said.
Yet many of these children are able to thrive if given a chance, examples cited in the report indicate.
A case in point is a girl identified as Dasha D., now 14, who was born with Down's syndrome in 1999, and whose mother Anastasia initially gave her up to an orphanage under pressure from health workers, but decided to take her back a year later.
“They told me she would die in my arms, that her illness was so severe that she would need constant care,” Anastasia was quoted as saying. “They compared her to a broken toy that you can return to the store.”
But after returning home, Dasha learned to walk, talk and read and began attending school, the report said. She also enjoys taking care of her elderly grandmother and a younger sister, her mother said, and photos of Dasha included in the report show a smiling blonde girl, looking happy as she hugs her little sister or holds a toy.
Dasha's fate would likely have been very different if she had remained in an orphanage.
In eight of the 10 institutions visited for the report, HRW researchers “documented how staff issued threats against children, including death threats and threats of beating or psychiatric hospitalization, as punishment for behavior deemed 'bad' or 'wild'; called children derogatory names such as 'vegetables' and claimed children have no potential to learn or live independently,” the report said.
The calumny of being unable to learn — and the sentence to a lifetime of misery it entails — is endorsed by a special term in Russia's orphanages: The children are declared “uneducable,” the report said.
Those who get the label are often tied to cribs in “lying-down rooms” around the clock, according to the report.
An independent Moscow-based pediatrician specializing in treating children with disabilities, who was identified only as Nina B., told Human Rights Watch that the severe restrictions on any opportunity to learn or even move often cause children from orphanages to become “atrophied.”
Andrea Mazzarino, a Europe and Central Asia researcher at Human Rights Watch and an author of the report, said in a statement that “violence and neglect of children with disabilities in orphanages is heartbreaking and completely deplorable.”
“Many children with disabilities confined to ‘lying down’ rooms suffer stunning delays in their physical, emotional and intellectual development,” Mazzarino said. “Until the Russian government and donors act, tens of thousands of Russian children may spend their lives between four walls, isolated from their families, communities and peers, and denied the range of opportunities available to other children.”http://www.themoscowtimes.com/news/article/ngo-slams-treatment-of-disabled-children-in-russian-orphanages/507183.html
Tuesday, September 16, 2014
Waiting
This morning, the first thing I saw on FB, was that I had been tagged by a very sweet friend. She has made it her mission in life, to get the faces out there, the faces of disabled children and adults, who are living their lives in institutions in Eastern Europe. The picture I saw was a beautiful little girl named Maria, who is 13 and has Down syndrome. What a precious little girl she is. She has lived her entire life without the love of a family. :( It makes me so sad. It's clear in her picture that she has conjunctivitis in her right eye. Will it be treated? I honestly don't know.
Every night when I go in and check on the boys, I see them sleeping so sweetly in their beds. Then there's that moment, when I am reminded where they came from. And, where they would be today, if I had not adopted them? I thank God, for opening my eyes and sending me to Russia. Caleb will be 12 next month, almost the same age as Maria. I can't imagine him living in an institution now. Picturing him in a place like that, makes me cringe. He loves school, water parks, car washes, music videos, pizza, the IPAD, riding his bike, Christmas,,........and so much more. All of those things, he would not get to experience, if he had not been adopted. Who would kiss his owies, help him brush his teeth, teach him to read, give him a hug when he is sad, take care of him when his tummy hurts, or celebrate his birthday? No one. Who would he call Mama? No one. The children in these institutions, know the word Mama. They know that some children have Mamas. And they know that, they do not. :( There are over 150 million orphans in the world today. That blows my mind! Where are the families that should be stepping up for these children? As much as I would like to, I can't save them all. I have three little boys that I have adopted. All three have Down syndrome. But there are thousands of little boys and girls, just like my boys, living in orphanages and institutions. Lonely and hungry. Hungry for more than just food. Hungry for love.
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Maria
Every night when I go in and check on the boys, I see them sleeping so sweetly in their beds. Then there's that moment, when I am reminded where they came from. And, where they would be today, if I had not adopted them? I thank God, for opening my eyes and sending me to Russia. Caleb will be 12 next month, almost the same age as Maria. I can't imagine him living in an institution now. Picturing him in a place like that, makes me cringe. He loves school, water parks, car washes, music videos, pizza, the IPAD, riding his bike, Christmas,,........and so much more. All of those things, he would not get to experience, if he had not been adopted. Who would kiss his owies, help him brush his teeth, teach him to read, give him a hug when he is sad, take care of him when his tummy hurts, or celebrate his birthday? No one. Who would he call Mama? No one. The children in these institutions, know the word Mama. They know that some children have Mamas. And they know that, they do not. :( There are over 150 million orphans in the world today. That blows my mind! Where are the families that should be stepping up for these children? As much as I would like to, I can't save them all. I have three little boys that I have adopted. All three have Down syndrome. But there are thousands of little boys and girls, just like my boys, living in orphanages and institutions. Lonely and hungry. Hungry for more than just food. Hungry for love.
First day of school 2014
Caleb
Liam
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Elijah
These beautiful children below, are all orphans with Down syndrome. They are just waiting for a Mommy to love them. It is my hope and prayer, that they do not have to wait, for the rest of their lives.
Fynn
Dima
Katya
Mikah
Sasha
Sergey
Vanya
Vlada
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